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am, is, are

The first verb a child needs: naming themselves, naming a thing, saying how they feel.

From age 3First words

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✏️ The pattern

Saying it
I am / you are / it is
Saying no
I am not / it is not
Asking
Are you…? / Is it…?
Short answer
Yes, I am. / No, it isn't.
🖨️ Printable worksheet

🗣️ Sentences a child can say

Tap any sentence to hear it. Every one uses words from a topic pack you already have.

🩹 What you will actually hear

The three mistakes that come up in every class, and what is behind each one.

I have five.I am five.

Many languages say “I have five years”. English uses am for age.

I am go to school.I go to school.

Am is not a helper for ordinary verbs. One verb is enough.

Is you happy?Are you happy?

You always takes are, even for one person.

🎯 How to teach it

  1. 1

    Start with the child, not the rule. Point at yourself: “I am Aylara. I am happy.” Then point at them and wait.

  2. 2

    Use a mirror or a photo. Faces make am is are concrete in a way a table never will.

  3. 3

    Add one feeling word a lesson. Happy, sad, tired, hungry — four is a term's worth for a three-year-old.

  4. 4

    Play “Is it…?” with a bag. They feel a toy through the cloth and guess: “Is it a car?”

🗂️ Topic packs that pair with this

Same structure, words your class already knows — no new vocabulary needed.

💬 Questions teachers ask

When should a child learn am, is, are?

As soon as they can say their own name — around three. Do not teach it as a table of forms; teach “I am happy” as one whole chunk and split it later.

Should I teach the contractions (I'm, it's) first?

Yes for speaking — that is what children hear. Show the full form when they start writing, and let them notice the apostrophe rather than explaining it.

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