Conversation questions
Friendship Conversation Questions (B1–C1)
Best friends, loyalty, falling out and staying close.
- Age
- Ages 13+
- Level
- B1–C1
- Skill
- Speaking
- Format
- Teacher guide
Warm-up
In pairs, write down three qualities of a good friend. Compare lists, agree on the top three together and share them with another pair.
Pick a question
All 12 questions
B1
- How did you meet one of your closest friends?
- What do you usually do when you spend time with your friends?
- What makes someone a good friend, in your opinion?
- Do you prefer having a few close friends or lots of friends? Why?
B2
- Is it possible to stay close to a friend who lives far away? How?
- Why do some friendships come to an end, and is that always a bad thing?
- Should friends always tell each other the truth, even when it hurts?
- How are friendships that start online different from ones that start face to face?
C1
- Can people who disagree about important things still be close friends?
- How do friendships tend to change as people get older, and why?
- Is loyalty to a friend ever more important than doing what's right?
- They say we choose our friends but not our family. How much does that shape the way we treat each of them?
Wrap-up
In groups, write a short 'friendship guide' for someone starting at a new school or job: five tips for making and keeping friends. Read it to the class.
Printable question cards
Twelve cut-out cards with the level on each, plus the phrases and vocabulary.
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Lesson Plan
Complaining Politely Role Play (B1–B2)
Loud music, an early alarm and a birthday party nobody wants to cancel.
How did you meet one of your closest friends?
B1 · Friendship
What do you usually do when you spend time with your friends?
B1 · Friendship
What makes someone a good friend, in your opinion?
B1 · Friendship
Do you prefer having a few close friends or lots of friends? Why?
B1 · Friendship
Is it possible to stay close to a friend who lives far away? How?
B2 · Friendship
Why do some friendships come to an end, and is that always a bad thing?
B2 · Friendship
Should friends always tell each other the truth, even when it hurts?
B2 · Friendship
How are friendships that start online different from ones that start face to face?
B2 · Friendship
Can people who disagree about important things still be close friends?
C1 · Friendship
How do friendships tend to change as people get older, and why?
C1 · Friendship
Is loyalty to a friend ever more important than doing what's right?
C1 · Friendship
They say we choose our friends but not our family. How much does that shape the way we treat each of them?
C1 · Friendship
Useful phrases
- I've always thought that a true friend...
- In my experience, friendships...
- I really believe that...
- So true.
- Yes, I've found that too.
- I'm not sure about that. I think...
- Maybe, but don't you think...?
- It's different for everyone, but...
Vocabulary
- get on well with — to have a friendly relationship with someone
- drift apart — to slowly become less close over time
- fall out — to argue and stop being friendly
- have someone's back — to be ready to support and defend someone
- acquaintance — someone you know, but not well
- a shoulder to cry on — someone who listens and comforts you when you're upset