Conversation questions
Family Life Conversation Questions (B1–C1)
Home routines, generations and what family means to each of us.
- Age
- Ages 13+
- Level
- B1–C1
- Skill
- Speaking
- Format
- Teacher guide
Warm-up
Each student sketches a quick map of the people who matter most to them (relatives, friends, neighbours) and explains it to a partner in two minutes.
Pick a question
B1 · 1 of 12
Who do you spend the most time with at home, and what do you usually do together?
All 12 questions
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B1
- Who do you spend the most time with at home, and what do you usually do together?
- What is a tradition or routine that the people you live with enjoy?
- Tell your partner about a relative or family friend you admire. Why do you admire them?
- How are jobs like cooking and cleaning shared out where you live?
B2
- How is family life today different from when your grandparents' generation was young?
- What are the advantages and disadvantages of lots of relatives living under one roof?
- At what age should young people be allowed to make their own big decisions? Why?
- Why do you think disagreements often break out at family gatherings, and how can they be avoided?
C1
- To what extent are we shaped by the people who brought us up rather than by our own choices?
- As people move away from where they grew up, are friends becoming a kind of 'chosen family'? What is gained and lost?
- How might longer life expectancy change relationships between generations in the coming decades?
- What are the hardest trade-offs parents face when balancing paid work with time at home?Adults
Wrap-up
In groups, agree on five 'house rules' that would help any shared home run smoothly, then compare your list with another group's.
Printable question cards
Twelve cut-out cards with the level on each, plus the phrases and vocabulary.
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Speaking prompts for teens and adults
Over 200 conversation prompts, B1 to C1, each with two follow-ups and useful phrases.
Who do you spend the most time with at home, and what do you usually do together?
B1 · Family Life
What is a tradition or routine that the people you live with enjoy?
B1 · Family Life
Tell your partner about a relative or family friend you admire. Why do you admire them?
B1 · Family Life
How are jobs like cooking and cleaning shared out where you live?
B1 · Family Life
How is family life today different from when your grandparents' generation was young?
B2 · Family Life
What are the advantages and disadvantages of lots of relatives living under one roof?
B2 · Family Life
At what age should young people be allowed to make their own big decisions? Why?
B2 · Family Life
Why do you think disagreements often break out at family gatherings, and how can they be avoided?
B2 · Family Life
To what extent are we shaped by the people who brought us up rather than by our own choices?
C1 · Family Life
As people move away from where they grew up, are friends becoming a kind of 'chosen family'? What is gained and lost?
C1 · Family Life
How might longer life expectancy change relationships between generations in the coming decades?
C1 · Family Life
What are the hardest trade-offs parents face when balancing paid work with time at home?
C1 · Family Life
Useful phrases
- What matters most, I think, is...
- I strongly believe that...
- It seems to me that...
- That rings true for me too...
- Good point, and...
- I don't think that's true for everyone...
- I'd put it a little differently...
- Every family is different, but...
Vocabulary
- extended family — relatives beyond parents, children, brothers and sisters
- upbringing — the way someone is cared for and taught as a child
- generation gap — differences in views between older and younger people
- household chores — regular jobs needed to keep a home running
- get on with someone — to have a friendly relationship with someone
- close-knit — with members who support and care about each other